@shanboody

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LET’S DISCUSS: What's your preferred birth control method? It’s THANKS, BIRTH CONTROL DAY today! I've been using various methods of birth control for well over a decade - I'm currently using a copper IUD, which I can't begin to tell you how much I love! Follow @bedsider to learn more and use #thxbirthcontrol to share your appreciation #sponsored

My @victoriassecret angel 😇😫. I’m in awe of you and so proud that you’re living your dream today. Maybe this shot we did four years ago didn’t hook em as hoped but you’re tireless work ethic and relentless pursuit to defy the course of history DID! Girl, you’re making history today (again)! 👏🏽👏🏽 #vsfashionshow #vsfashionshow2018

Do you know any black women directors who make erotic films? I’m in @cosmopolitan today discussing Black Women’s Hair and Sex... “With sex in porn for example, which has a very specific face attached to it and puts white women at the forefront, hair is a big part of it. Whether it’s being pulled or it’s draping over somebody’s face; being brushed back or being whipped as somebody’s riding. And for a lot of people their hair just doesn’t lend its way to those activities. So how do you get into that sexy zone when a massive part of the images you see don’t apply to you?” She suggests ditching mainstream pornography in order to find something different. “There are black porn film directors that make adult films that you can see yourself depicted in. You could even try looking at erotic art for more diversity. Changing the channels that you engage with to find visual depictions of sexuality that put you in the leading role is a big part of it.” Link to full article on my story

What do you think of tell-all 📚 ☕️. Full review of @bundleofbrittany book #judgethiscover on my YouTube channel (link in bio)

PLEASE TAG! I’m looking for anonymous stories from military or ex military members about sex in the military. This is for an educational video I am making in collaboration with American Sexual Health Association to help new recruits understand what sexual health services are available to them. Stories can be funny, basic, life changing, cautionary or inspirational. I do have a small fee for anyone’s story we end up using in the final video. Please email me at stboodram@gmail.com with yours or so that I can send you a sample.

Brooklyn ThanQ for letting me be your sex Ed teacher with @envsnfest 📸@TheOluwaseye

What’s your face shape? I’m 🥔

I’m in NYC Saturday for @envsnfest then DC Tuesday for #youtubeblack @youtubefanfest . East coast luvas will I see you? NYC envsn-festival.myshopify.com/

Who’s calling us?

Brooklyn!!! Every time I’m in NYC ppl ask me if I’m having a meetup but better than that I’m doing a full hour talk @envsnfest THIS SATURDAY! Come see me at #envsnfest 10/20 for “Let’s Talk about SEX, Baby!” The @envsnfest has a CRAZY lineup of speakers/ performers so honestly if you’re in NY you HAVE to go. Buy your tickets now at https://envsn-festival.myshopify.com/ Shoutout to the founder @sharifasays for putting together an amazing event

Once in awhile we all need this reminder: stop complaining that you’re consistently being hurt by the very thing you’re still holding onto it. New video up on my YouTube about my (most recent) extradition of my old bullshit