No matter how much love and passion was there in the beginning, eventually anything frustrating gets old. When you interrupt and refuse to let your person finish their thought, you send the message that your voice is the most important and that your issues come first.
Even though it may feel like you have won these arguments, you have not.
The silence that follows is not a quiet nod that you are correct, it's the calm before the storm. He/she has shut down, and is having an inner conversation that includes the following: you make me sick, you don't care about my feelings, you think you know everything, here we go again, I'm really tired of this sh*t, and maybe this just isn't working out.
So the issue doesn't get resolved, even though you think it has, bitterness starts to creep up, and now he/she is on Facebook & IG checking to see who they're missing out on. If you love someone, show them. . .it's as easy as shutting up, and listening.
This is what you do when you find out that 17 sets of parents lost their babies at school today, you come home and spend time with yours!!! I never met any of your babies, but I'm mourning with you.
This little one was just deathly scared of her scooter a few days ago, now my little fancypants is ready for the Olympics ❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊. She's my biggest Blessing in life, and my heart aches for those parents who've lost theirs.
When scientists look at couples who've made it to Forever, they find that they all have one thing in common. Can you guess what that is? . . .It's actually their ability to stay love blind. What this means is that after all those years, they still see their partner as beautiful, handsome, brilliant, kind; and they have been able to minimize their partner's flaws. Instead, their minds amplify all of their partner's wonderful qualities and their brains push through any inner conversation about negativity.. So as you celebrate Valentine's Day, either by yourself or with your loved one, keep in mind that being able to see the positive at all times, is going to be the one thing that allows you to maintain a passionately loving relationship up until the very end. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.#drrachaelinstitute#drrach#love4ever#passion#loveblind#chooselove#choices
The instaglam photo, and then the real life version of a wonderful Saturday with this precious little Almost-two-year-old . . . 'did you just say the lunch I cooked for our picnic was nasty??' 😂🤣😂🤣 wouldn't trade it for the world!
She's learning early about how to reduce her carbon footprint & caring for the environment ❤❤❤... Just in case it's been removed from her history books and her science textbooks. 🤓😎In her mini she is getting at least 1000 miles per gallon 😊😊😊...Thanks Aunty Jackie!!!
Sideye 👀..so, are we going to sit and act like there isn't something very wrong with ICE raiding 100 7eleven stores to look for illegal immigrants!??? Are we in a time warp? Are we going to all sit and be happy its not us? ..Surely there's a better way... Link to the Newsweek story in my bio. This happened on Wednesday in L.A. 😮🤐 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ #ice#Dreamers#daca#immigration#wtfisthis#7eleven#ICEraids#seperatingfamilies
As I take delight in even the smallest and simplest things with my little one, I can't help but be mind blown that Americans don't care about other people's little ones. I would walk barefoot and naked, in the trunk of a car, or anything else to get the best life for her. So to all the #Dreamers and the #DACA recipients out there, I want you to know, that this American, this decendant of the slaves that built this country, supports you!! And I'm embarassed at the volume of people who do not. ❤❤❤✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼🌞🌞🌞🌎🌎🌎 #hanginthere
Im absolutely loving this laid back Sunday. Grateful that God chose this life for me, and I stepped up to the plate & claimed it as my own. Going forward, make sure you claim what's yours!
1) know when its time to walk away... 2) know that the uncomfortable feeling is just what it feels like when great things are growing 3) stay grateful & positive the whole time & 4) drown out those too unfortunate to understand your vision. 😎😊❤🌞